Condolences & Tribute
Condolences
Today, we gather to celebrate the life of our precious Hedrine who we affectionately called Heddie. Though her time on earth was short, her impact on our lives will be felt forever. As a child of God, Hedrine was a shining star. She reflected the love and light of our Heavenly Father. Hedrine was someone you could always count on. She had this rare gift of making you feel included, seen, and important — no matter where life took her. Whether it was a simple conversation or a major life event, she made space for you. That was just who she was — thoughtful, generous, and deeply loving. I’ll never forget when she flew Dad and me out to Atlanta to see her try on her wedding dress. It wasn’t just about the dress. It was about sharing that moment with us, especially Rev Eddie. Being a boy dad, Rev. Eddie may never have that experience. Heddie invited us into something so special and personal because she wanted us there. That’s the kind of person Hedrine was. She didn’t just live life; she brought people along with her. She made sure no one felt left out and for that we will be forever grateful. Her warmth, her captivating laughter and smile, her spirit — those are the things we’ll carry with us. And though the weight of losing her is heavy, the memories she gave us are full of light. Hedrine was indeed a treasure in our hearts, and her presence will be deeply missed. But even in death, we find hope in the promise of eternal life. We know that Hedrine is now in the presence of our Lord, basking in His love and glory. We take comfort in the words of Psalm 116:15, 'Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.' We love you, Hedrine. Thank you for everything. Rest In God’s Perfect Peace!! From Rev. Eddie & Pst. Mansa Cochrane (Mom and Dad)
It is with a heavy heart that we honor the life of Hedrine Senge Ebanja, a cherished sister in Christ, whose faith, love, and warmth left a lasting imprint on all of us. We had the privilege of knowing Hedrine for a long period of time at United Charismatic Healing Ministry in Edmond, Oklahoma. Hedrine lived with deep compassion, quiet strength, and a heart guided by God when she served in our church choir and the young adults fellowship. She was a humble soul who loved to memorize scriptures and had a warm spirit that radiated to all that she met. She always greeted everyone with a smile. We will never forget how Hedrine will approach us with her ideas, suggestions, and creativity with regards to Christian ministry. She is so deeply missed. Though we mourn their absence, we rejoice in the promise that she is now at peace in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain or sorrow, only joy everlasting. As it says in 2 Corinthians 5:1 “If the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, an eternal house in heaven...” Hedrine, thank you for the love you gave, the lessons you taught, and the faith you lived so boldly. Your memory will remain with us. Until we meet again, may you rest in heavenly peace. “Well done, good and faithful servant... Enter into the joy of your Lord.” — Matthew 25:23 Pastor and Dr (Mrs.) Amos Ayitey
Tribute to My Dear Friend, Hedrine Senge Ebanja Today I honor and celebrate the life of my dear friend, Hedrine. It is difficult to put into words what she meant to me, but I remain deeply grateful for the time we shared. I first met Hedrine at United Charismatic Healing Ministry, where we worshipped, served, and grew in the Lord together. We also attended the University of Central Oklahoma, where we studied and shared in many activities and events. I was privileged to be among the friends who helped her prepare for the Miss UCO International pageant, and I was there to witness her remarkable victory. I also had the joy of celebrating with her at her graduation - moments I will always cherish. Hedrine was more than a friend; she was a blessing. She was smart, kind, generous, and had a wonderful sense of humor. I still remember when I struggled with tuition, and without hesitation, she came through for me, telling me to pay her back whenever I could. That is who she was - a pure and generous soul who gave without expecting anything in return. I was blessed to live with her for a short while, and later, when I visited Atlanta, she welcomed me into her home again. Hedrine was a true encourager, always uplifting others and bringing joy wherever she went. Her impact extended far beyond her friendships. She faithfully served in the choir and as president of the young adults at church, inspiring and mentoring many. She was passionate about winning souls and bringing young women into the fellowship. Truly, Hedrine carried light and love wherever she went. Though she is no longer with us, her memory and legacy will live on in our hearts. Hedrine, thank you for the love, kindness, and inspiration you shared with so many. Rest in peace, my dear friend, until we meet again. Lovingly submitted by, Anulika Abia
When I first met her, the very first thing I said was a compliment about how beautiful she was, not realizing then that her beauty extended far beyond the physical. She carried within her a rare kind of grace, wisdom, and love that radiated in every word and action. To her family, she was a devoted wife,mother and daughter, giving endlessly of herself with patience and care. To her friends, she was a true companion—steadfast, encouraging, and full of life. Her mind was sharp and brilliant, and her heart even more so. Losing her leaves a space that cannot be filled, yet the memories of her laughter, her kindness, and her strength will remain with us always. She will be missed more than words can ever truly express. Artisha Diribey (Friend)
To My Darling Rabbit, Dear Rabbit—as we’ve always called each other—you were one of the most selfless, loving, kind, smart, and caring sister God ever created and blessed me with . You were a blessing in my life in every way. Through your words, your actions, and the way you lived, you were the first to show me what it truly means to have a relationship with God. You loved me deeply and paid such close attention to my every need—always going out of your way to care for me. You valued me in ways that made me feel seen, cherished, and understood. Our friendship—our sisterhood—was rare, beautiful, and deeply unconditional. It's the kind of love many never experience, even in a lifetime. You knew what made me happy and what made me sad. You could read my emotions without me ever having to say a word. You pampered me endlessly because you truly saw me. You always called me your “baby” because of how childlike I’ve always been in your eyes. When I went through one of the toughest seasons of my life, you were right there beside me. I will never forget how, during my entire pregnancy, you came to every single antenatal appointment. Every single one. Only someone as loving, selfless, and kind as you would do that. That’s why you were our little Nounou’s godmother—no one else could have filled that role. It could only have ever been you. You loved me, Rabbit—and I loved you so, so much. I cry, not because I have regrets, but because I miss you with every part of me. I miss our little conversations about God and our purpose. I miss our sweet evenings and weekend strolls at Avalon. I miss our Jenny’s Ice Cream dates, and our grocery runs to Sprouts and Whole Foods. I miss you calling me the “Mayor of Alpharetta.” I miss all the small, cozy, warm moments you brought into my life—just by being in it. But I know deep in my heart that this world never deserved someone as pure, selfless, and loving as you. I take comfort knowing that you're resting in the arms of our Lord, and I believe with all my soul that I will reunite with you one day. Until that day comes, continue to rest in perfect peace. I love you, Rabbit. I love you forever. Cynthia Anibo (Friend)
